|A Date with Destiny: Groundhogs get more respect than dolls—what gives?|
|Written by Stephanie Finnegan|
|Monday, 07 March 2011 20:54|
In Japan, the centuries-old Hinamatsuri (or Girls’ Day) just transpired on March 3, 2011. On this occasion, families with daughters pray for their girls’ health, happiness and well-being. Little dolls—many elaborate and ornate, called “hinas”—are set up in the family’s home. In past decades, these dolls were launched on lakes and rivers as a way to atone for the young girl’s imperfections or flaws. The dolls were surrogates for absorbing ill health, problems, and difficulties that might plague the family. As they floated downstream, the family’s strife also was said to go away.
However, the dolls that are displayed now are so gorgeous, and so expensive, that many of them are simply placed on a curio shelf for three days, where they are further decorated with flowers, fruits, and other sensuous treats. (In a heightened blend of paranoia and dread of eventual singlehood, the girls have to showcase and pack up their dolls in under three days. If they leave them out longer than that, they are ticking their way toward spinsterhood!)
It’s interesting that dolls have a central role in these ceremonies. They are part of the event’s very fabric, one of the keys to the festivities’ significance. This got me to thinking, “Does such a reverence or reliance on dolls translate to America?” Sadly, I don’t think so.
Immediately, I began to wonder if Valentine’s Day was ever tied into the exchanging of Kewpie dolls. Though some sweethearts did, of course, give a Kewpie doll to one another on February 14, it wasn’t a part of the occasion. It didn’t comprise the day’s heart and soul. (Interesting side note that I learned about the Kewpie doll, however. The tragically heroic Anne Frank received one on St. Nicholas Day, when she and her family were being harbored in that infamous attic in Amsterdam. I hope that little piece of plastic gave this poor, doomed young girl a modicum of happiness and joy. What small consolation, given her ultimate fate.)
Why, then, are dolls so estranged from any particular American outpouring? We have jack-o’-lanterns for Halloween, bunny and chick toys for Easter, and assorted reindeer and gingerbread men for Christmas. But there seems to be nothing that equates with the sole making and sharing of dolls.
As a doll collector, I wish this weren’t so. I wish there were a day of the year when dolls were mandated to be bought and bestowed. Wouldn’t that be a marvelous celebration to behold? Unfortunately, the buying and gifting of dolls is just a personal preference. It occurs at birthdays and Christmases when girls are little, and soon fades away as they stare down tweendom.
If you could wave a magic wand and make dolls part of a national celebration, which event would it be? I’d like to think perhaps on Arbor Day. There’s not much happening on this date (April 29, this year), and imagine how the granting of a little doll would make it so much sweeter and serene.
Can’t you just picture the lovely woodland fairy dolls shared every Arbor Day, sealing the importance of . . . of what? Chlorophyll? Root maintenance? Reforestation? I have to admit, I’m not really sure what we celebrate on Arbor Day. But, believe me, if there were woodland dolls involved, like these cute Stephanie Blythe and Linda Mason ones, I would know it for sure. I’d extol and editorialize it!
Maybe Arbor Day isn’t the best date, but it is coming up in a matter of weeks. It has that in its favor.
Perhaps, Groundhog Day? But that seems more in tune with pitching plush pals and stuffed animals. Presidents’ Day would be too male-centric, plus I couldn’t get emotionally behind the sculpting and swapping of wee Woodrow Wilson and Warren G. Harding effigies. Also, President Teddy Roosevelt is so joined with the teddy bear that this occasion, too, would be better left to the bear and other ursine artists. (Note, the soft-sculpture people already have September 9 and October 28, which are “Teddy Bear Day” and “Plush Animal Lover’s Day,” I kid you not.)
So which holiday, dear friends, would make the best time for the trading of dolls? Don’t say, “Anytime!” or “Every time!” (My mother would say that when we would whine about Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. “Why wasn’t there a children’s day,” we’d lament. She’d patronizingly tell us, “Every day is children’s day.”)
I’m fascinated to hear what you think. Would it be a well-known red-letter calendar day (Valentine’s or July 4) or something less recognizable (“National Juggling Day,” June 13)? Personally, I’d be afraid that any porcelain dolls would come to a crashing end on that fateful day.
Let me know what day you would pick. And who knows? If we all agree and buy dolls on that date, maybe we can get a groundswell movement going. After all, how many people did it take to get “National Kite Flying Day” (February 8) up in the air? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g89NxTTycxcEven though Mary Poppins isn’t in our corner, we can do it, I’m certain! I’m looking forward to an official doll day, and the official Holly Day doll, too!
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